SELF-MADE

Literally.

YOU’RE DESIGNED TO SUCCEED.

I’LL PROVE IT.

SELF-MADE VS

OTHER-MADE

OTHER-MADE ENDS NOW

self-made/her./

A woman who is literally made of herself. Not in someone else's image.


WE’RE IN A TRUST RECESSION

WITH OURSELVES

You’ve learned to be like everyone else. How to price, market, love, dress, even how to have your hair.

That was easy.

You became good at being who everyone else wanted. And it worked. Career. Money. Family. Responsibility. Being the capable one.

Other-made pays well.

other-made/her./

A woman who is made of others: her boss, coach, partner, parents have decided who she .


But eventually you started wondering

where am I in all this?

What if nothing has to be wrong.

To want more?

YOUR MISSION IS TO FEEL F**KING ALIVE

YOU.

  • You're interested rather than trying to be interesting all the damn time.

  • You're not fearless, sometimes you’re consumed by it.

  • You're not endlessly resilient. You deal with reality.

  • You don't believe everything happens for a reason. You look at what happened and ask: what now?

  • You love enormously, you hurt enormously but the event no longer gets to become evidence about your life.

  • You value substance, but can lose your shit over a disappointing hotel room.

  • You've survived serious things, and you watch trashy TV. For research.

  • Some people think you're too much. Others see the same thing and find it captivating.

This was a motivating boost, you gave me advice that I hadn’t heard from anyone before, like, how to sell in ways I’d really love which was kind of eye opening. The way you talked about my writing motivated to go write a post and start my next book.

— Laura Belgray, Best Selling Author + Talking Shrimp Founder

There’s no Self-Made Woman to copy.

THAT’S THE POINT.

You’ve just met her.

SHE’S YOU.

ME?

I AM HER.

I've lived many lives.

Multi-million-pound businesses.
Award-winning businesses.
Billion-pound companies.

Two divorces.
One great love.
One daughter.
Breast cancer.

OTHER-MADE

PAYS WELL.

It just doesn't pay you.

I know the difference between other-made and Self-Made.

The Method

the METHOD

A Four Part Tool Kit

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    A relationship with fear

    Love, loathe or avoid, we can’t escape them. We have seven, they’re not here to haunt us, they’re here to point us in the right direction.

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    A static amplifier

    Tune in, turn up the volume, mess with the dials until you’ve got no sense of who you are. How to tune into the right stuff and lose the static.

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    Message

    The message in the mirror, is it written in lipstick or sharpie? How do you land the rght message and create your own mic drop moments.

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    It's all about ecology

    Our environment isn’t where we’re standing at any particular time, it’s what’s happening inside our body, mind and design. Ecology is unique to you.

The Practice

the PRACTICE

A Three Stage Movement

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    Wake Up.

    See yourself.

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    Clean Up.

    Work with yourself.

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    Dress up.

    Let yourself be seen.

MAKE. BUILD. RESPOND. BE SEEN. GUIDE. INSPIRE. CREATE. DIRECT. INITIATE. TAKE IT ALL IN..

MAKE. BUILD. RESPOND. BE SEEN. GUIDE. INSPIRE. CREATE. DIRECT. INITIATE. TAKE IT ALL IN..

MAKE. BUILD. RESPOND. BE SEEN. GUIDE. INSPIRE. CREATE. DIRECT. INITIATE. TAKE IT ALL IN.. MAKE. BUILD. RESPOND. BE SEEN. GUIDE. INSPIRE. CREATE. DIRECT. INITIATE. TAKE IT ALL IN..

MAKE. BUILD. RESPOND. BE SEEN. GUIDE. INSPIRE. CREATE. DIRECT. INITIATE. TAKE IT ALL IN..

IT'S TIME TO DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY

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IT'S TIME TO DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY 〰️

SELF MADE

STARTS NOW

All you have to decide

Life can be more ME.

I’m bored of waiting for WHEN.

LEAVE THE REST TO ME.

start HERE

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    START WITH YOUR DESIGN

    The Design Brief to see who you are and how you work in black and white.

    The Design Brief
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    PUT IT INTO PRACTICE

    Self-Made Sessions bring the decision, change, ambition or problem that needs to move.

    Self-Made Sessions
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    DO IT TOGETHER

    Experiences; workshops, retreats and rooms for women who want honest conversations.

    Events

  • Learning more about me now than in the last 30 odd years.

    —Nicola Khamooshi

  • It's like magic, I feel so seen, so fascinating, engrossing, satisfying.

    —Laura Belgray

  • The clearest breakdown of my HD I've ever seen, and most helpful in showing me how to use it in my life.

    —Marie-Elizabeth Mali

  • I use this in my marriage guidance. It's specific in an almost spooky way.

    - Kara Kull

  • It's like reading a book of me, everything was connected to everything else

    -Sandra booker

  • You gave me advice I hadn't heard from anyone about how I can sell, it motivated to me to start my next book.

    -Laura Belgray

  • I'm letting things go. It's truly shifted how I move through life.

    -Kara Kull

This is not about becoming someone else.

You’re already her.

Choose Where To Start

LET'S GO.

LET'S GO.